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Can an Executor Decide Who Gets What in Massachusetts?


The Short Answer Is No

An executor generally cannot decide who inherits, and cannot change the shares set out in a valid will. In Massachusetts the person handling the estate is called the personal representative, and the job is to carry out the will and the law. There are real decisions to make along the way, about administering property, paying what the estate owes, and completing distributions, but that authority does not let anyone replace the deceased person’s instructions with their own view of what the family deserves. Massachusetts duties of a personal representative.

A family meeting with an attorney to discuss a will and an executor’s authority in Massachusetts.

What That Looks Like in a Real Family

If a mother leaves her estate equally to her three children, the child serving as personal representative cannot give herself a larger share because she provided more care. She also cannot reduce a sibling’s share because that sibling has more money, rarely visited, or disagrees with how the estate is being handled.

Those things may matter enormously inside a family. None of them authorizes the representative to rewrite the distribution.

Deciding How to Divide Is Not Deciding Who Gets What

The practical decisions are more complicated than the percentages suggest. An estate usually holds a house, investments, furniture and personal belongings rather than a bank account that can simply be split three ways. Depending on the will and the authority it grants, the representative may need to sell assets, distribute property directly, or put forward an allocation that satisfies what each beneficiary is entitled to.

Choosing how to carry out an equal division is a different thing from deciding the division should no longer be equal. Massachusetts rules on distributions in kind.

When the Representative Wants to Buy Something From the Estate

Suppose one child wants the house and the others want cash. The representative has to weigh the will’s instructions, what the property is worth, what the estate owes, and whether there is enough money to make the arrangement work for everyone.

An appraisal and a properly documented transaction may be needed. And if the representative is also the person who wants to buy the house, that conflict needs particular care. Being in charge of the estate does not create a right to buy its property at a friendly price. Massachusetts rules on conflicted estate transactions.

Why Beneficiaries Often Receive Less Than They Expected

The amount people receive can fall short without anyone having changed a thing. Valid debts, administration expenses, taxes and other required payments come out first and reduce what is left to distribute.

A will leaving the residue equally to three children divides what remains after those obligations and any earlier gifts are dealt with. It does not guarantee each child one-third of the gross figure on the first account statement they saw.

When There Is No Will

If no valid will controls the property, Massachusetts intestacy law decides who inherits. The personal representative does not get to pick beneficiaries based on closeness, need, or what someone says the deceased would have wanted.

Property passing by beneficiary designation or through a trust is governed by that separate arrangement instead. Before deciding what they have authority to distribute, the representative needs to work out which assets are actually in the probate estate. Massachusetts guidance on probate assets and inheritance.

Where a Personal Representative Should Stop and Ask

Some situations, an ambiguity in the will, a proposed family settlement, need additional legal steps. A representative should not resolve those by privately announcing a new distribution. The effect on creditors, taxes, minors and other interested people has to be considered, and sometimes the court needs to be involved. An arrangement that sounds perfectly agreeable around the kitchen table still has to be documented through the correct process.

If You Are the One Serving

Get advice before you promise anybody particular property or a particular payment. That is the moment most problems are created, and it is almost always an ordinary person trying to be fair rather than anyone behaving badly.

Start with the will, the financial picture, and a clear written account of what you intend to do and why. A disagreement about timing or valuation is not misconduct. But if you find yourself adjusting shares because of something that happened in the family, stop there. We can help you separate the decisions you are authorized to make from the instructions you are required to follow.

Related reading: How long does probate take in Massachusetts? and The Top 3 Mistakes Executors Make.


If you would like to talk it through, book a free 15-minute consult call with our Lead Intake Coordinator, Nicole Ott, or give us a call at 978-657-7437. There is no charge and no pressure, the goal is simply to work out what your family actually needs to do next.

Michael Monteforte, Jr.

Michael Monteforte, Jr.

Founding Attorney

Michael Monteforte, Jr. is the founding attorney of Monteforte Law, P.C., an estate planning and elder law firm in Woburn, Massachusetts. He was admitted to the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts in January 2002 and to federal practice in the U.S. District Court, District of Massachusetts, in March 2006. He has practiced estate planning and elder law in Massachusetts for over twenty years.

Monteforte Law Team

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